Not bashing the Odyssey, my wife's really loves it but I've got a few issues.
First, do they not make a carpet/mat for the center isle when the seat is removed? Salesmen seemed confused on that one. Neighbors 05 or 06 odyssey has one.
Are there only 5 speakers in the Ex-L with RES? One in each front and sliding door and the sub? Kids are always asking us to tun up the volume if they are in third row. I know we can fade the sound more to the back but it just sees lacking. Our 2008 T&C never had this issue.
I know I shouldn't compare it to our T&C but when you come to a stop and put it in park, even though the sliding doors are locked, you could still hit the open button and they'd open. With the Honda you have to Park, unlock all the doors (which doesn't seem safe, if that's what they're going after) and then open the sliding door. Not a huge deal but I wasn't sure if I missed a setting.
All in all, we are happy with it so far.