Update
Dealer called and said the "Relay Control Module" is bad... looked up the part number 38250-SHJ-A21 and found out that is a "relay box assembly" under the hood. $340 for the box plus labor.
Seems there are lots of parts (fuses and relays) in that box. I have to think that one of the broken parts could be fixed, as they sell most of them individually. Anyone have experience with this?