Pulled the brand new spark plugs and found burned oil deposits on the anode, oil on the threads, but not on the coil packs for all of bank 1. I popped into my local dealer to price a piston ring cleaning job and a valve seal replacement job to see if either would be worth it, and a service writer said that its almost certainly the piston rings and not the valve seals even if all 6 cylinders are having equal and excellent compression at 150psi.
Given the VCM issues with the engine, I'm presuming the oil control rings are still letting some oil through which is adding oil to the combustion chamber on bank 1 but not bank 2 even with VCM disabled. I had been seeing some large differences between bank 1 and 2 upstream sensors, which I thought might explain the differences in the downstream sensors. I presume the oil in the combustion chamber on bank 1 due to the oil control ring leak is causing the bank 1 sensor to produce more variable numbers and have a slightly more lean long term fuel trim than bank 2. The oil in the combustion chamber then enters the bank 1 cat and killed it. The bank 1 sensor 2 is reading that the cat is below threshold when driving, but not at idle so its not totally destroyed. Hopefully the 3rd cat is taking care of any bad gases (it passed tailpipe emissions recently, but I moved to a OBD2 emissions inspection state) I installed spark plug non-foulers on bank 1 sensor 2 which didn't change the live data much, but has kept the bank 1 catalyst monitor from failing so far.
I added some Seafoam top engine cleaner spray to the bank 1 combustion chambers but I'm still getting oil on the spark plug threads. I'm still debating whether I should try and EPR flush the engine oil to address the oil control rings, or just let it be and hope the non-foulers get the car to pass emissions next year. The car is too old to have the rings pulled out and cleaned. I'm hoping that disabling the VCM stopped the majority of the oil burning problem and that maybe after a few thousand more miles without VCM, normal operation, and frequent oil changes, the rings might unstick themselves. I might also try liquid seafoam rather than the spray. Engine oil flush seems like the next reasonable step, but also seems a little risky on an engine with 190k miles.