Welcome. Once you've have it, you'll wonder how you ever did without it.
If it were me I'd look at going with a factory DVD, ie EX-L w/RES and an aftermarket GPS. Usually don't need the GPS around town but when I use it, I use a bean bag mount that rides in the center of the dash.I hope I'm putting this in the right spot...
Myron - Myron Cope, one of the most entertaining color men to announce the game of football.
I've longed for a minivan since my daughter was born, a little over two years ago. The 4Runner, although fun to drive was not cutting it when Nana or Papa came to visit. Much to my wife's shagrin we look to be getting a minivan. Probably an Odyssey, since they "at least look a little cool" (4th gen).
I think the EX-L NAVI with an aftermarket DVD (drop-down) is the right choice. Although after checking out the Touring Elite, the dealer had to pry me away. My practical side can find better uses for the $8K.