The two brands that have been mentioned the most on this forum are Audiovox and Clifford.
Audiovox is a very good value and offers a long warranty. Clifford is a popular "higher end" brand but was bought out by DEI fairly recently, and some feel they are overpriced and quality conrol is not so good anymore. I have a Clifford Intelliguard in my '99 Accord, very happy with it.
Either of these brands offer the features you want, but your reliability, etc.. will be based on the quality of your installer more than the electronics, IMHO.
P.S.- if you don't need remote start, you could get the factory add on security system, which installs cleanly and ties into factory harnesses w/o cutting/splicing wires. HandA has it for $250.
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-Shin John
'01 DEP EX, and I'm workin' on it! (slowly)