There's your issue, chief. eBay is known for these kinds of problems with counterfeit parts. Avoid using it for any critical parts. Aisin kit off of RockAuto.ordered on eBay
Let me guess, you ordered a "Genuine Honda" kit off of eBay? Because I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but there is no actual Genuine Honda kit. The only way to get all the Honda parts is to buy them all individually. And the cost of that is well over $500.