These Honda transmissions are like none other.
Years ago I was reading a tech bulletin from a link on a blog that appeared to be sponsored by Sonnax (they manufacture transmission rebuild and repair parts.) It was eye-opening.
If a Honda automatic transmission were to perform a clean shift while accelerating (engaged gear's clutch package disengages, then the next gear's clutch package engages) it would be a bit of a jolting experience. Nobody would buy a car off the dealer's lot that exhibited this on a test drive.
On another note, the above mode of operation really isn't harmful to the transmission.
Honda's approach to making a smooth shift during acceleration: as the previous engaged gear is beginning disengagement, the PCM directs engagement of the next driven gear. There is a brief moment where both are partially engaged, and
one result is a much smoother shift.
The other result is a lot of localized
heating on both affected clutch packages as they are briefly, very briefly trying to be at the same mechanically driven rotational speed.
If this "ballet of disengagement / engagement" timing is off a little (say, longer dwell time involving simultaneous engagement of two gears), you can get a really, really smooth shift....
... you can also get some terrific ATF heating, resulting in thermal decomposition of the ATF. Thermally decomposed ATF most likely has ruined static and kinetic clutch friction characteristics, among other degraded ATF operating characteristics.
Just my somewhat-educated guess on the mechanism for this problem.
Either way, whether it's for the reason
@phattyduck postulates, or the above, both do the same thing ... thermally stress the ATF.
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P.S. On yet another note, if I'm reading the diagram correctly, our transmissions don't use ATF charge (line pressure) to lock the TCC (torque converter clutch). Rather, they use ATF charge to
open the TCC and keep it open until ready for lockup. Amazingly, the TCC is locked up when you start your engine, and when line pressure is sufficient (usually pretty instantly), it's opened (i.e., in a disengaged state).