We’ve been using our odyssey (2010 EX-L) as a spare vehicle and for kid drop off duty, for roughly the last 6 months. I’m in central MS where it’s been 90+ degrees with similar percentages for humidity. Every weekday, the van sees at least 1.5 hours of idling on blacktop parking lots, waiting in line to get the kids. On top of that, I’ve been working on my 92’ Landcruiser which is our main vehicle that we use for our hunting lease… unfortunately for the van, it’s been going back and forth an hour each way for that too. In the past three weekends alone, I’ve towed our 6’x16’ double axle trailer there and back every Saturday. First trip was over 3,000lbs of seed and fertilizer, 2nd was 2 atvs, and last weekend was a kubota crew rtv and 2,000lbs of corn. So our Odyssey has seen some hard use, especially for what it is. On top of that, I’ve been treating it pretty rough, WOT multiple times per day, running low on fuel, basically being about as rough as you can on a vehicle.
All that being said, I only run 87 octane, which I usually buy from a dump of a country store near camp… usually because I’m in a hurry. We’ve run 93 a few times traveling to the mountains in TN, which is usually hauling all sorts of krap inside, 4 people and towing our 5x8 trailer with a golf cart. I couldn’t tell any difference performance wise or in mpg. I’ve never had any issues at all, no CEL, no misfires, no pinging that I could hear, nothing. I do run synthetic oil changed every 5k, it is muzzled and has an aftermarket transmission cooler.
I would guess the folks with the newer vans that have the D.I. engines may see a difference though. My wife drives a 2019 Pilot EX that sees a 100+ mile round trip commute daily, which is about 90% interstate. It’s muzzled and has the 6-speed transmission. I’m picky about the fuel for her car, using only top tier brands. It used to average 24mpg with 87 (for 2 years or so). Last year I decided to run 93 on a whim and on the first tank she averaged 26mpg. From then on I’ve run 93 on it, which still nets around 26-27mpg. I took the Pilot on a 3 hour trip recently and averaged 28mpg. It doesn’t seem to have any more power, but does seem to stay in 6th gear easier, not shifting as much.
I wouldn’t worry much about 87 vs 89 or 93, if our van can handle me beating the hell out of it with 220,000 miles, those who use theirs “normally” should have no issues.