2019 Passport for 20 months and over 12k miles
Yeah, there are so many Honda's out there with this 9 speed atm. There had to have been refinements over the last few years. I know the 2016 Pilot, MDX, TLX had issues and some folks were hit hard. This is with anything new coming on the market.
Overall I feel like most of the complaints primarily come from the dog clutch shift patterns. Some will look for problems where there is none. A lot of folks might dwell a bit much in the thought of this is horrible and fall in to the zeitgeist. It's contagious

I'm not denying that there aren't real problems for some people but there has got to be a bit of hysteria on the topic.
Like I've mentioned before, there are several 10 speed failures in the forums here. I still believe the 10 speed is better product, but it is new. Again, this will require refinements too. None of us know how long things will hold up because the vehicles are fairly new.
My goal is proper maintenance and care so that my van has long life. Still would love to hear form higher mileage folks. I'll keep updating this thread.
cheers!