FW_in_OKC,
It is a shame that you spent the amount that you did on a product that you are not happy owning. One bright spot, for you, is that by the time you are ready to sell your Odyssey it will probably be as reliable as it is today. That bodes well for resale value. There is a good reason why Hondas hold their value as well as they do.
Personally, I would be disappointed if I had bought a Chrylser mini-van because I had been blinded by the extra comfort that it may offer only to find out that it was a repair nightmare.
The reason for that is largely due to the fact many of the people I talked to about the Odyssey had never owned anything but Honda's. Their parents and grand parents drove Honda's too. So they had no experience base to compare anything to. They just passed on the rumors they heard or read about American made vehicles. (Rumors to them only because they had no first hand experience.)
If you think this is a fairy tale then by all means go buy an American made mini-van and come back to this forum in a few years and tell everyone of your experience.
Have you looked at the resale value lately of the Honda Odyssey vs the American made counterparts?
Back in April, I looked at the resale value of a 2001 Honda Odyssey EX vs Chrysler T&C EX:
Each with 15,000 miles:
....................................MSRP+Dest..........Private Party Value
...2001 Odyssey EX:........$26840................$27675
...2001 Chrysler T&C EX:..$26830................$21950
Each with 30,000 miles:
....................................MSRP+Dest..........Private Party Value
...2001 Odyssey EX:........$26840................$24775
...2001 Chrysler T&C EX:..$26830................$19375
Notice, that at 15K miles the Honda was worth more used then it was new. The last time I remember seeing a used vehicle that was worth more used then it was new was the 1989 Honda Accord LXi. In 1990, a used 1989 Honda Accord LXi was worth 101% of its new price. The 2002 resale numbers reflect about the same thing as the 2001 resale numbers.
Certainly, the Honda Odyssey is not perfect and there is room for improvement. Every vehicle has its strengths and weaknesses. About the only area where I am disappointed with the Odyssey is the sound system and the lack of a roll down side windows. But then I knew about these when I bought the car. Fact is, there is not one other mini-van out there that embodies as much as the Honda Odyssey does.
Funny this is, the first words out of everyone who has sat in my Honda Odyssey EX-L is that it is roomy and comfortable. My kids (all three of them) love the Odyssey.
There are compromises to everything.