thanks a lot.. that is a big help.
as a bonus here is the story for you :
A week ago I got a car from US and brought to Canada.
I drove my 06 Odyssey to Honda dealer to do safety certificate.
Day later when I picked up my car they they charged me $108, for safety cert. and still did not give me certificat because no DAYTIME RUNNING LIGHTS. Honda delaer suggested, they can do it for only $399 + 14% TAX. and if I want to do it by myslef I have 7 days to show them that I have DRL. I went to a parts dep. and asked how much are parts for DRL from HONDA?
Parts guy was nice because he said he will check "compatibility between US/Canadian models" and will come with the solution.
5 min. later he got me " the solution" for $14.99 + TAX . - a 12V NO ( normaly open OMRON Relay )
I got it home, and I found the place to put the relay but there was no cables that goes to the connector. I guess canadian model has those connections made.
Well, now I have the relay, electrical diagram, degree in electronics and 2 days to pass the safety

, I read some stuff about DRL installation in Honda Odyssey so I have good hopes to accomplish this tonight.
Thanks for help again.