Leecea,
I came back to this post to try and close the loop on the issue of replacing the front mount. I just noticed your EDIT – wow, they dropped the subframe?! They violated that old saying “look before you leap” or "think before you act".
I know my post is likely of no use to you – sorry - just thought I’d come back and put something here for anyone who might search this up in the future.
I just did the front mount yesterday (on my 2001 with 78K). My passenger side mount was ruptured (leaking fluid) and I had reason to suspect the front mount as well. So I decided to just do both.
I had to stare at that front mount awhile to figure out how it was going to come out. But, there is a simple solution that finally presented itself.
First remove the "dynamic damper". (That thing just to the side of the engine mount and attached to the same cross-member. It’s a trivial thing and takes only a couple of minutes to remove.) Then remove the battery and the plastic battery tray/holder – but no need to remove the metal tray/base. Unclip the electrical things there and move them to the side - only takes a couple of minutes. Remove the simple plastic coupling between the upper and lower radiator hoses.
Then go about the usual procedure to remove the mount (you’ll need to, in the end, remove the engine mount bracket which is connected to the engine block - by three bolts - after you raise the engine a bit to relieve force in the mount – and if you’ve not done engine mounts before, please research it before jumping in. The base of the mount is connected to the cross member by four bolts, and to the bracket by the upper-center bolt – none of these are hard to remove apart from some access issues…)
A recommendation: Remove the bolts at the base of the mount, and back off the nut on the center bolt, before you start to lift the engine - that way you can feel the mount and know when it has been unloaded - i.e. there is some play there. Only then loosen and remove the mount/engine bracket bolts.
When it is free, the mount can be easily shifted to the side, lifted and brought out. Just have a helper spread apart the two radiator hoses – mainly pushing down a bit on the lower radiator hose. It’s really simple to get it out with this process! Only takes a few seconds at this point…
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Edit: More info/thoughts about the front engine mount job on my 2001. As best I can remember…
1) As mentioned above, the mount is attached to frame cross member by four bolts (14mm head). The nuts into which those bolts feed are welded to a plate on the cross member – the nuts cannot be removed. Three of the bolts are easily accessed from above with a suitably long extension. One bolt (the one on the “passenger-rear” side) cannot be accessed from above – it must be loosened/removed from below.
2) Once you’ve loosened (or removed) these four bolts, and the main center bolt (17mm head), you’re ready to lift and support the engine. The best place to do this is off of the tranny - at a point more toward the center of the car (i.e. close to the engine) - and maybe a bit toward the front of the car. There is a nice surface there – but it’s a good idea to put a block of wood between the jack and the tranny. Keep in mind that you are going to have to get back under the car and remove some bolts, so put your jack in at a suitable angle. The objective is simply to take the load off of the mount, and you’ll know when this has been done since you will be able to “jiggle” the mount. After the mount is loose, a secondary (back-up) jack under the oil pan (or a jack stand put under the oil pan or tranny - even if it isn’t “tight” against the surface) wouldn’t hurt just for piece of mind - even though nothing "bad" can really happen.
If you put the car up on ramps, then as you jack the tranny you will notice that the car rises a couple/few inches before the mount becomes unloaded. But this is not a concern – you can lift the car a bit easily when the wheels are on the ground (e.g. if you get under there and push up on the tranny, or if you pull up on a fender). So, you're not lifting the engine much relative to the car, you’re mainly just lifting the car relative to the wheels. If you use jack stands, then that’s a different situation (since the springs are not involved).
I believe it’s best to stop lifting just a tid bit after the mount is unloaded. You can't then get the mount out directly (since the center bolt sticks up through the mount-to-engine bracket) and you have to remove the mount-to-engine bracket. Two of the bolts holding the bracket are easily accessed from above – the third must be accessed from below.
Anyway, hope this is of some help (and not too redundant).
Note: Jackson provides a Service bulletin on the engine mount replacement in the following thread:
www.odyclub.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=32984