I have a 2011 Oddy with around 135K miles just signed up for this forum to try to make sure others don't face these problems. Never posted on any of these forums but just wanted to say I had the SAME issues of stalling. It would mostly happen in the summer, on a slope when I'm idling and even worse with the AC on. Then it happened at any red light I would hit on a hot day, especially after a long drive. The issue started a bit in the winter as well.
Solution: Changed the air intake hose. The RPM was a solid 750 (guessing here as it was a bit below the 1000 RPM line). Less noise, and it felt like a new car. I was stunned, it can't be that simple but totally makes sense because the engine needs the correct about of air/fuel ratio.
Adding a bit more detail here. I checked the battery and alternator with tools I got from Amazon, and cleaned the terminals. All good. I had the Sparks replaced around 115K miles and the timing belt around 100K. The car was better after these changes but at 125K it started acting up again. I was ready to change the fuel pump because it seemed like the car was choking because there wasn't enough fuel. But there weren't other signs so I opted to try the air intake hose which is a $20 (frustrating if you don't lubricate the parts first) fix that seemed to make an immediate impact. Disclaimer, I've only driven the car once since the change, but I know my car very well, things have improved significantly. I purchased the VCM Tuner II and waiting for it to ship this week so I can install it. I tried to get in on the 10 year warranty extension from the Honda Class action law suit but my car was 11 years old when I found out (now 13 years old) and I "broke the warranty" by doing my own oil changes. It would be a waste of time, I'll just install the VCM Tuner and hope this car lasts until 200K that's all I want from it. I hope this helps others here, it's a really frustrating problem that becomes expensive when you get mechanics involved because it's very hard to diagnose. Scotty Kilmer talks about this on his channel, I recommend you listen to it for even more detail: