Valvoline MaxLife ATF
Honda OEM power steering fluid
Mobile 1 or Valvoline synthetic oil 0w-20
Valvoline dot 3/4 synthetic brake fluid
Honda OEM coolant (or Asian Zerex Blue Honda version if I was going cheaper)
This list is almost exactly what I use.
ATF - generally safest to use Genuine specified stuff, but Honda ATF has a history of not being so great (on my '99 the spec was originally Z-1 until they were giving out new ATs like free coffee in the waiting room, and switched the spec to DW-1), and MaxLife has been widely tested by people on this forum with good results. So I use MaxLife, with RedGard added - ONLY because of the good reports on this forum, I don't think I know any better. Has worked for me for a long time now with no problems.
PSF - I use genuine Honda PSF. One of the very few fluids where I go genuine. There are a couple of compatible alternatives. But be very careful here. Regular PSF off the shelf is not what you want. And many cars, especially Japanese brands, use a DEXRON-type ATF for PSF, but not these Hondas. This is one of those times where if you don't know, you should be very cautious about thinking that the guy at the parts store will steer you right. Steer ... LOL
Engine oil - use 0W-20 synthetic of whatever brand you want. Unlimited opinions out there regarding this. Generally, I'd say engine oil hardly matters at all since engine problems with Hondas are usually not the main thing to worry about. But it is a reminder that there are engine problems on these, and
more important than fluid brands is to get a VCM defeat device of some sort, or engine problems are likely to result.
Brake fluid - DOT 3 or 4, changing regularly, brand not important
Coolant - all colors in glycol based coolants are artificially added. Some coolants are not compatible and mixing them will cause gelling (i.e., huge problems). I use the same Peak (green) Long Life ethylene glycol in multiple cars, just for convenience. So (differing from the prevailing opinions you will see on this forum), I did a careful flush to get the blue stuff out (did not need to be too careful since the Honda blue and Peak LL green will not react, but I was anyway), and filled with green. I promise I'll report back if any of my cars ever blow up. If I only had this one car, or if all my cars were Hondas, I'd stick with the Honda blue.